It's true that animals and people can lose the will to live and sometimes just give up. If you hadn't brought him home, that would have probably been the end.
No doubt. He was barely alive and going downhill. He needed to be home with his family to want to live.
It is the same with people. In cases where a person is not doing well emotionally or mentally in a hospital, I think it is best for them to leave as soon they are well enough to physically survive at home.
Years back when I was working in hospice/advanced dementia, I watched a few couples do the love bird thing. When one dies, the other follows a few days later. .
The partner may not even be on hospice themselves but if one goes the other is gonna follow.
I have worked bedside enough to believe anything. Youd think it would be the opposite....but nope. Weird, unexplainable by science things occur everyday.
My big fluffy retarded cat Chicky B was part of a really sick litter where only 2 out of 5 lived. I watched each kitten fade. Fading kitten is when they just start dying....no one really knows why, they just die. The mothers will sometimes push them out of the litter. I dont know what comes first.....if mom knows something is wrong with that kitten and pushes it out and it starts fading, or it starts fading and mom pushes it out. It just starts happening.
I have held and comforted like 17 kittens as they faded and out of that number 4 have turned around. There isnt much you can do. But I really tried. I would keep them warm, hold them, talk to them, give them water and KRM(kitten replacer milk) with a dropper and rub honey on their gums(blood sugar).
Anyway...Chicky was on his way out. He wasnt perking up with shit I was doing. I actually started crying about it because he would have been the 4th dead kitten from that litter it was like they were dropping like dominos and it was SO rough. I had done everything for hours...including giving him fluids under his skin. I prayed and pepped talked that little kitten. I was telling him all the cool things about being alive and why he should stop fading and stay with us.
And this kitten just stopped fading. He just stopped. Like he was thinking "alright alright lady.....you sold me on wet food and cat nip. I'll give this life a try" lol
He is legitimately retarded, we had to teach him how to eat food out of a bowl, he is hilariously clumsy and he doesnt understand legs are not scratch posts.....but he is here because he decided he wanted to be.
He is like a real life Garfeild....only retarded lol. He is 30 pounds. He is a big cat. He is also one big ball of pure love. This cat looks at everyone with such intense love in his eyes....we call his eyes his love lasers. He is just big and doofy and full of love.
When he was starting to learn to walk....he would shake and go in circles. We thought he was going to have severe neurological problems....but he eventually corrected. We have one cat who has epilepsy and if he gets too excited, he will start hissing and have seizures.
My 16 year old was unfortunate enough to discover that. She was playing with him with those fishing rod toys and he was going nuts playing with it and he just started hissing and went into an awful seizure.....she freaked out and thought she killed him.
He is fine unless he gets too excited lol. Chicky hasnt had any events or anything since he stopped shaking when he walks.