These men are total psychopaths. Several of them are even child rapists.
I found an incel board that was blatantly pro rape. I read a few things and noped right on outta there.....it was so....SO disturbing.
My husband almost took away my internet access it was so bad I had to talk about it lol.
I suspect much of what is said on places like that is just for shock value and to impress their peers. In reality I doubt many of them would have it in them to assault a female and would probably clam up and flee at the prospect of interacting with one.
Remember this is the internet and people have a tendancy to bend the truth a tad Lol.