While you're in bed with him cuddling.
It's not about hours. When I am cuddling with my man, there is NO electronic device running. We don't have as much as a tv in our room. We have each other and we're either awake and interacting, or asleep.
You know, like people that actually love one another.
Yes. He was on Twitter and reading something for an article he had to write.
So I thought "lemme go check out a forum" and started poking around here.
And we always rub our feets when we read stuff in bed.
When we are like....whole body cuddling? We aren't reading anything. And we actually do that way more than rub feet and read.
I actually love how easy it is for him and I to just exist together. I'm sorry you have such a high stress relationship where unless you are constantly looking at eachother....you don't feel loved.
Have you read about anxious attachment styles? It might help.