Okay I missed this but I'm gonna respond. Because this is the psycho wacko shit that many people cannot stand
1. No you don't know. And no you should NOT care. It isn't anyone's business and it's a waste of limited brain cells on her behalf. She needs to learn how to mind her own train wreck.
2. The ONLY people "speculating" on this are you and her. No one else is. I promise you no one else is.
And that is not MY responsibility. The thoughts and actions and words of you and Murd are ONLY on you. No one makes you guys do anything.
People are going to post things they feel like posting. It's up to YOU to recognize the boundaries and mind them. Murd maybe has no concept of that considering how often she uses things said off the board or openly discusses other people's lives and tries to actually get involved.
I honestly believe her alcohol use is damaging her brain. I know we had a falling out and that might get taken as me flaming her.....but I'm not. I genuinely believe her alcohol use is giving her brain damage.
Her thought patterns and emotional regulation have been on a steady decline for years now. And much of what she says is blathered nonsense.
But....to clear up gossip among the mentally ill....I DID post that my ex relapsed.
He went on a drinking binge. Was getting black out drunk. Acting loony. I posted about that.
And that had nothing to do with me and my man. And it's part of why I wanted a divorce.
My ex and I had it out over custody and we have shared custody. No fucking clue where Murd thinks otherwise.
She must be stalking us on social media because when my ex was gunning for sole custody (because he did do that, yes).....i was openly saying "He doesn't want her. He wants to hurt me. He will probably do everything he can to take her away, avoid child support and dump her on his mother to raise"
So that's where she got that.
So essentially Murd is a nosey and unhinged stalker who blathers other people's private stuff on a forum as if she has any business discussing it.
To be clear......I don't care that she's a psycho shitbag and maybe doing that. I really don't. So I'm not complaining, I'm just pointing out how nasty and awful she is as a person. She's a piece of shit. And no one is responsible for HER choices but her.
Good luck Lily. Stay on her good side.....because anything and everything you've said to her will end up all over BF with HER own spin on it.
This is a pig of a person who got mad at Biggie over politics....and started talking about his body in a vulgar manner. Then she cries and plays victim when it comes back on her harder.
Murd is always a victim. She's NEVER in the wrong. Keep that in mind, Lil
When two of you finally turn on eachother (it's very obvious you guys don't really like eachother) it's gonna be naaassstttay. At least it will give you both a break from the torment I bring you just by existing and being happy.
BTW my daughters are fantastic. Two are adults and I promise of they saw you and Murd trashing me as a mother, THEY would bring pain down on you. They are assertive, bright and brave and beautiful. I have a wonderful relationship with them.
Squish struggled a bit from the divorce and it was rocky....but things are starting to smooth out and adjusting is happening and it's going good.
So you can stop speculating.....there you go.
Also .....interesting that my man having some drinks last night on St Paddies day and getting spicey means he is addict and the one who drinks on a daily basis to the point where she's on her way to wet brain syndrome has judgement for his ONE night drunk....on a holiday where people get drunk. How dare him.
He was fucking adorable all morning.
