I wonder why many men say, before marriage much sexo. After marriage once a year!
Is that true gents?
And women, why dont you offer your pussy to the man? Is it because he is not in shape anymore?
It’s important to realize that there is a lot of excitement at the beginning of the relationship that most people allow to fizzle out. Some people aren’t sexual and enter relationships for other reasons like fulfilling their need to have children, etc.
Some people lose the connection because they ignore the needs of their partner. If a man is watching a football game and his wife starts telling him about something that happened to someone they both know… he can ignore her and justify this because he is watching the game. A man who is invested and loves his partner will answer her while watching the game, keeping that connection alive.
I don’t think anyone who truly loves their partner is going to care if they age, gain weight, lose their hair, etc. When you truly love someone, you love their imperfections too.
I don’t think it’s fair when people “change” after they are in a relationship. I don’t think they need to have sex everyday to maintain an intimate connection, but a sex drive and life similar to when the relationship started is also important since loss of consortium has been the main irreconcilable difference aka grounds for divorce in this country for the past 100 years.