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I disagree. I think it will lead to an increase in adoption. It’s a pregnancy, not the end of the world.Because some of them might see it as the only way out of their situations? And a lot of these girls come from troubled environments & broken homes.
Something tells me this law won't end well for many. Instead of saving lives it may end causing more deaths including the unborn child.
Anyways just a thought.
we already have solid statistics on unwanted pregnancy that confirms only 4% are adopted
It is much more likely that these women will end up on welfare and fall down a dismal hole of poverty that leads to drug use… and the child will inevitably become abused/neglected and end up in part of the already horrific child services system.
NO THANKS!
I think, if adoption was more affordable, and the government/state gave more incentives to parents wanting to adopt, instead of incentives to abort, it would make the world a better place.
If a pregnancy is unwanted, there are plenty of precautions to take beforehand, the "day after", or even in the first couple months.
The state will support abortion because they recognize that women with children on welfare remain on welfare and then create a child who will then rely on welfare. It’s a vicious cycle that we refer to as welfare raised in Cali.
Adoptions are expensive because there is a legal relinquishing and awarding of rights that is an extensive process. Also, I don’t know many people who are willing to pay that kind of money for the undesirable unborn child of an obviously unfit mother.
Honestly, if you’re against abortion don’t have one and don’t ever ask a woman to have one. It’s that simple.
I have never had one and I never will.
I was "welfare raised". It made me not want to raise a kid like that, made me want to work harder.
I dont support my state's abortion laws. They allow a fully born child to be aborted on the table. They "will keep the child comfy til the mother decides". This is a law that just happened in the past couple years. This year, they took away the requirement that the parents have to hear the heartbeat before deciding to abort. Monsters.
I think any abortion after the first trimester is murder.
Yes, the adoption process is long and expensive, which is why a lot of parents that want to adopt, cant. Me being one of those parents.
Its the same way for the Mexicans that want to come here legally. Process is long and expensive, so they go another route.
Too much fucking red tape, and greed.
And SELFISH MOTHERFUCKERS!
I don’t condone that. Up to 14 weeks for anyone regardless of circumstances is all I will back and that’s just because of health issues and it’s so ass backwards here that most men are able to bail and have zero responsibility.
Most of these women wouldn’t qualify to give up their children in a private addition. A decent family isn’t going to want to risk issues with a state adoption either.
I’m proof that having an unplanned child out of wedlock doesn’t work even if you get married. I had my daughter at 18 (I was on the pill) and sacrificed 12 years of my life in a failing marriage to save my children from a single parent household.
We need to go back to focusing on a healthy marriage before children are considered.
14 weeks sounds about right to me.
My mom and dad got married early, when she was 15. I was born the month after she turned 16. They got divorced when I was 1, and I went to live with my great grandparents and my great aunt til I was 5.
I did not want my son to grow up without both parents either. Certain things happened though (she cheated, then got cancer and died).
Totally agree! Healthy marriage! Thats what is wrong with a lot of these young adults today, they were not parented properly.
damn… you’ve been through A LOT!